How to Pair a Necklace and Earrings: Build Your Own Set
Pair a necklace and earrings into a calm set with three rules: stick to one colour (gold or silver), repeat one shape or material (for example pearl with pearl, or heart with heart) and let one piece lead. If the pendant stands out, choose small studs; if you wear bigger earrings, choose a fine chain.
Quick answer
- Colour: necklace and earrings in the same colour.
- Repetition: the same shape or material, such as pearls or a heart.
- Balance: one focal point; the other piece small and quiet.
- Neckline: with a polo neck just the earrings, with an open neckline the whole set.
Why build your own set?
Buy a necklace and earrings separately and you can end up with two pieces that do not quite go together. Choose them together and you have a set to wear together or apart. Handy when you are short on time, and a safe choice as a gift. Together you often pass EUR 50, and then shipping is free.
Which necklace and earrings go together?
Four combinations that work straight away:
- Pearl with pearl: the fine freshwater pearl necklace with the pearl stud earrings (4, 6 or 8 mm). Classic, in gold or silver.
- Heart with heart: the heart necklace with the heart earrings as a stud. Gold-tone.
- Star with star: the star necklace (star about 24 mm) with the mini studs in the star shape (about 4 mm). The necklace is the focal point.
- A stone with a stone: the cubic zirconia solitaire necklace with the flower stud earrings with cubic zirconia. Subtle enough for every day.
Prefer a ready-made set? The fine water wave necklace and bracelet set pairs a 45 cm necklace with a 16 cm bracelet.
Which neckline suits a set?
- Crew neck or scoop neck: a pendant necklace sits calmly on the décolletage. Do not let the pendant fall exactly on the edge of the neckline.
- V-neck: a pendant follows the shape of the neckline.
- Polo neck or high neck: the necklace disappears. Wear it over the fabric, or wear just the earrings that day.
- Off-shoulder: plenty of skin and little competition, the moment for the full set.
Where each length falls is in our necklace length guide.
How do you match earrings to your hairstyle?
With long, loose hair, small studs barely show. Wear your hair behind your ear, in a ponytail or up, and even subtle earrings stand out; that is when a necklace and earrings really feel like a set. With your hair down, choose something with more movement, such as the long chain drop earrings, with a fine necklace.
How do you wear a set at work, in the evening and at the weekend?
- At work: with a blouse or fine knit, the set is enough. Leave out extra bracelets.
- In the evening: with a plain dress, the set can take centre stage.
- At the weekend: with a white T-shirt, a pearl set gives an elegant contrast.
Can you mix gold and silver in one set?
You can, but one colour looks calmest. Read gold-tone or silver-tone if you are unsure. Shop by colour in gold-tone jewellery and silver-tone jewellery.
How do you store a set?
Keep the necklace and earrings together in a pouch or compartment, away from other jewellery, so nothing scratches and the set stays together. Take them off for showering, swimming and sport. Pearls need extra care; see how to care for pearl jewellery.
Delivery usually takes 7 to 15 business days (a few days longer outside the EU); free shipping over EUR 50 or the local equivalent. Browse all necklaces and earrings to build your own set.
Frequently asked questions
Can I wear the necklace and earrings separately?
Yes. With a high neckline or a busy print, just the necklace or just the earrings often looks calmer.
Is a necklace and earrings a good gift?
Yes, it is a safe choice. If in doubt, choose a subtle combination in the colour the recipient already wears, such as pearls or a heart.
Do the necklace and earrings need the same shape?
No, but one repeat (shape, material or colour) makes it calmer.
What if the earrings are not right?
For hygiene reasons, earrings can only be returned with the seal unbroken. See returns.